Diving Deep: An Inside Look at the Male Dating Scene
When it comes to my own sexual philosophy, I’d like to share with you a little secret, if that’s alright. Women, for all intents and purposes, have themselves a dating pool to choose from so vast, she merely needs to throw a fishing line out, and something can’t not bite. Their (women) dating pool is brimming with fish and no matter where she looks, she’ll always be able find something.
On the other side of this what is effectively a bilateral understanding, a Man’s dating pool is not necessarily more limited but underneath the surface will have become far more complex, in the sense that the man learns what’s really there. A woman simply needs to show up and throw a line into a deep and vast swimming pool with a little bit of bait (and maybe even without the bait but for the fish the bait’s always there) and she'll inevitably, easily and naturally enable a catch to be made now.
Nonetheless, a man, however, has a few things he needs to get under his belt if he wants to expand what’s available to him as at first, it can be quite a limiting experience. He must learn the tides. He must learn how to operate his boat. How to use radar functions, watch for weather patterns and also, depending on the nature of his search, be able to map out where specifically certain kinds of fish can be found, i.e.: the kinds of fish that particular man is desirous of, and which bait they respond to the most.
The majority of men, let’s be honest, have a deep, deep hunger for pretty much any fish that lands in their net or on their line that they will take home, cook up, and eat as they feel lucky to have made 'this' catch.
Now, if a man wants choice as to which fish in particular he gets to take advantage of in its consumption and/or simple capture with or without release depending on that particular man’s preference, as it were, he is required to learn far more in how to fish and not to just stick to the simple bait and switch tactics and patterns of a man who doesn’t utterly and truly deserve what naturally will have become on offer now. You get all that?
